Have you ever been guilty of saying:
“I don’t have any time” or “I’m too busy”?
And then the eye-roll that follows the response of, “Well make time.”
Is it possible to be a creator of time? To stretch the intangible and make it suit our needs?
Scientifically, no, because we have decided there are 24 hours in a day, 60 minutes in an hour etc. If time is a man-made thing, why aren’t we utilising that structure rather than assuming it as a limitation? While we can’t physically make more time, there are ways of making more of your time, which I’ve been slowly learning since the beginning of October when I started full time postgraduate study. Most people I talk to about it can’t understand how I’m “fitting it in”, because we all have a finite amount of time each day, week, month to do stuff with. I was nervous over the summer thinking and worrying about the same thing; how will I manage? How will I dedicate enough time to it?
Don’t get me wrong, it’s tiring because I’m doing more in the same amount of time, but I’m happier knowing I’m making the most out of my time each day. (Well, most days. I do still have those stay-in-my-pjs-and-watch-tv-days).
Ok so these aren’t tricks, and they definitely aren’t the beginnings of a new science, but they’re just a few examples of how I’ve been managing full time work, full time study and a looking after my own home (and myself) over the past couple of months.
Train time…
Is golden. If any of you geniuses out there are commuting by train, tram, bus, or anything else more exotic where you’re not the driver, use this time to do something you wouldn’t usually do. Rather than staring into space, read a book or listen to a podcast. Make it useful time rather than redundant time. I calculated the number of hours I used to waste on my commute and it was an eye-watering 12.5hrs per week! Now it’s golden time for getting through my course reading (and some of my favourite hours of the week).
Sleep…
Is a necessity. Never cut corners when it comes to your sleep. Find your ideal number of hours’ sleep each night and build it into your routine. You’ll find you’re able to function much more effectively if you let yourself rest in between those hectic days. I try to go to bed at the same time each night and it generally means I wake up at the same time each morning. That way I know how much time I’ll have in the day to make use of, as there’s nothing I hate more than feeling I’ve “lost time” or am late for something.
Being strict with yourself…
Is the hardest part. Have you ever been guilty of saying “just one more hour” in the office, and then it turns into almost three hours and you’re on a late train home and you get back and there’s no food in the fridge so you’ve got nothing for dinner and you resort to having cereal before heading to bed? Yep, me too! Some people call it being a workaholic but I just think it’s a symptom of conscientious people who care about doing their job and doing it right, and so the lines between working hours and down-time become blurred. It’s easily done. But I’ve made a significant change to my own behaviour and know that twice a week I have to switch off from work, pack my laptop away and make the short trip from my office to university. As there’s nothing I hate more than being late, the first couple of times I hadn’t quite mastered the art of switching off from work at a reasonable time have become my motivation to never do that to myself again. We’ve created time, so why not create your own boundaries within that to stop time running away from you.
Brain space…
The one I’m not sure I’ve ‘got’ yet. Brain space is something I think about quite a lot and it’s a phrase I use at work when I need to get up from my desk and go for a walk, even just to get a glass of water, to distract myself from what my brain was working on. Brain space. I’ve not quite mastered it but I’m working on it. Sometimes I feel like my head is too full and I struggle to make my thoughts about corporate projects stop and my creative ideas about identity in 21st century literature take over. Although I’ve not got the hang of it, I’m almost certain that brain space is central to being a creator of your own time. It’s not about cramming, filling, overwhelming. To make more out of your time is to just do more with it, think more in it, feel more of what you choose to do.
So we can’t stretch time, because there will likely always be 24 hours in a single day, but we can be smarter with our time. Do what you love and use your time each day to do it.